I don’t know the first time my mom told me. I’m not even sure if it was her that said the words, “You have a brother, and he was put up for adoption when he was born.” I don’t know if I was sitting, standing, playing, or watching TV. I couldn’t tell you how old…
The Empty Nesters: Life After Children
For the greater portion of my married life my days were filled with all activities pertaining to my children. I wanted to be involved with my children’s lives at every stage of it. I did the soccer Mom thing. Even though I am not a sports fan necessarily I loved watching my children play ball.…
A Generation X Gray-haired Journey
People tend to think I’m older than I am. Even some of my fellow Generation X friends tell me that they often forget that I’m in my early thirties. I’ve always been an old soul, but there are several other factors influencing my perceived age. First of all, I am married to a man who…
This Trend Has Nothing To Do With Aging
A very interesting trend has re-emerged in the world of fashion and female beauty, and it’s picking up speed. Women, young and old, are suddenly and in increasing numbers embracing their gray, silver, or white hair. As the Huffington Post announced in early March 2015, “Gray Hair is White Hot,” and it shows no sign…
How I Survived the Mad Men Era and Lived to Talk about It
Those were the days my friend, in the mad, mad world of Mad Men fame. Only for me, it was the financial world of King & Bay Streets in Toronto. The world of Finance, Accountants, Lawyers, Big Tobacco, Advertising, Publishing – the whole gambit. When I look back on that era in my life, I…
“ROAR”: Sleep, Worry and Repeat
I spent the first three quarters of my life sleeping. I was born a sleeper, according to my mother. As a small child, I loved my sleep; however, my memory prior to age 10 is somewhat unreliable. I guess I will have to believe what those around me have chosen to share with me over…
Computers 101
1997 was the dawn of the eCommerce era, and the year that the pressure was put on the populace to increase the number of people online from the less than 8% who already were at the time. By 2014, 87.7% of North America was online, meaning those households own at least one computer and have…
Those who don’t know history are doomed to repeat it
‘Those who don’t know history are doomed to repeat it’ – Edmund Burke The older one gets, the more they know this to be true. We see it all the time, all around us, from small, seemingly insignificant occurrences to huge events that affect all of humanity. For instance and on a light note, my…
The Nearness of You: Re-emerging memories of those lost
Until quite recently, I had thought it was just me but then, while talking among friends, we all began to realize that this was quite a usual occurrence…. We were discussing the fact we were experiencing re-emerging memories, as we had begun to age, returning to those of our families and friends that had for…
There’s No Business Like Show Business
I am standing at a bus stop in the centre of Newcastle on Tyne, waiting for the bus to Jesmond Dean and the Playhouse there. I’m laden with “goodies” – if you could call them that… A small dog winds his leash around my legs. He is from the Pound and is anxious at this…